When your quest for real love has only been met with turmoil, you eventually reach the point of no longer having the ability to keep trying. When your efforts come across as wanting too much too soon or overly emotional from expected prior experiences. When you forsake everything else that is meaningless. Then it’s time to accept your lone fate, not because you’re unlovable, but that you are a special soul meant to have spare time to harbor your unique destiny that you would not otherwise be able to obtain.